This is a short blog to give a quick answer on why the narcissist is insecure. At their worst, they have no sense of self and glean identity and esteem at the sacrifice of others. They see others as competition and thus, are always feeling less-than or a need to one-up the other. At their… Read more
They are mean because that is how they are made up, ie, developed and molded, their way to control, their way to manipulate and hold someone back, their way to achieve stolen recognition, their way to simply fill them up.